The Hula House
Pacific Oasis Recovery
A supportive sober living home for women 30+ in North County San Diego.
Welcome to
The Hula House
At The Hula House, we're all about the full vision of sobriety. We provide safe, comfortable homes for women 30 and over in recovery to discover their interests, pursue their passions, and build the life they've always wanted.
Why The Hula House Is Different
The Hula House offers more than just a place to stay — it’s a supportive home where women build lasting recovery together.
What makes our community unique:
- Women 30+ community – Residents share similar life experience, creating a calmer and more supportive environment.
- Owner-operated – The home is personally run by Stacey, providing consistent leadership and accountability.
- A real home, not a facility – The Hula House is a welcoming residential property in Vista where women can focus on rebuilding their lives.
- Structured and supportive – Residents maintain routines that include meetings, work, and personal growth.
- Located in North County San Diego – Close to beaches, outdoor activities, and a strong local recovery community.
At The Hula House, women support one another in creating stable, independent lives in sobriety.
Premium Sober Living for Women aged 30 and Over
What Makes
The Hula House Special
The Hula House offers a premium sober living experience designed specifically for women 30 and over who are serious about their recovery journey. Located in one of San Diego's most pleasant climates, our home provides the perfect blend of comfort, accountability, and fellowship.
- Private or Semi-Private Room - Maximum 2 women per accommodations ensure your comfort and personal space.
- Modern, Fully-Furnished Home - 2 Beautiful white kitchens, comfortable living areas, and thoughtfully designed bedrooms.
- Resort-Style Pool & Garden - Enjoy the meditative benefits of gardening or relax by our beautiful pool.
- Vista Location - Experience 70-degree weather most days of the year in this ideal Southern California climate.
- Close to Everything - Walking distance to grocery stores, shopping, colleges, and job opportunities. 15-minute train ride to Oceanside Beach.
- Private Parking Lot & Pet Friendly!
Daily Structure
& Accountability
- Daily breathalyzing and drug testing.
- Individual recovery plans tailored to each resident.
- Strong work ethic encouraged - re-enter the workforce, attend school, or pursue your passions.
- Collaboration with your therapist, treatment center, family, and support network.
- 24-hour support and mentorship.
- 12-step meetings and recovery fellowship encouraged.
Amenities:
- 2 Modern, fully-equipped kitchens.
- Comfortable shared living spaces.
- Private parking lot, pool and outdoor entertaining area.
- High-speed internet.
- Close to North County AA/NA fellowship.
- Near colleges including Palomar, Mira Costa, and Cal State San Marcos.
The Rivertree House
Affordable Sober Living with Ocean Proximity
What The Rivertree House Offers
The Rivertree House in Oceanside provides an affordable sober living option for women 30 and over who want to embrace recovery in a serene, ocean-adjacent setting. Located in a quiet residential neighborhood just blocks from the beach, this location offers the perfect blend of comfort and accessibility.
- Ocean Breeze Location - Live blocks from Oceanside Beach in a peaceful neighborhood.
- County Beds Available - We work with county programs to make recovery accessible.
- Shared Living Spaces - Twin beds and bunk beds accommodations create a sense of community and sisterhood with twin and bunk beds.
- Same Accountability Standards - All Pacific Oasis Recovery homes maintain our high standards for testing, structure, and support.
- Beach Access - Walk, bike, or take public transit to beautiful Oceanside Pier and beaches.
Daily Structure
The Rivertree House maintains the same proven recovery structure as The Hula House:
- Daily drug testing and breathalyzing.
- Individual recovery planning.
- Encouragement toward work, school, or volunteer opportunities.
- Collaboration with your support network.
- Access to North County recovery community.
A Focus on
Productivity & Fellowship
Re-Enter the Work Force
We support you as you re-enter the work force, pursue education, or explore your passions. Our homes are conveniently located near:
- Employment opportunities in Vista and Oceanside.
- Palomar College.
- Mira Costa College.
- California State University San Marcos.
- Downtown Vista (Paseo Santa Fe) shopping and dining.
- Oceanside Harbor and beaches.
Build Your Recovery Foundation
We encourage positive self-esteem, personal growth, and lasting recovery by helping you:
- Identify and pursue your passions.
- Set and achieve personal goals.
- Build healthy daily routines.
- Develop strong recovery skills.
- Connect with the North County recovery community.
Celebrate Small Successes Everyday
At The Hula House, we understand that lasting recovery is built one day at a time. Our comprehensive sober living program helps you create the structure, accountability, and community you need to thrive
Our Comprehensive Program Includes:
- Daily Accountability - Breathalyzing and drug testing to ensure a safe, substance-free environment.
- Individual Recovery Plans - Personalized planning to help you achieve your unique goals.
- Testing & Monitoring - Regular testing creates accountability and safety for all residents.
- Collaboration with Your Team - We work with parents, spouses, therapists, and treatment centers.
- Life Skills Development - Cooking, cleaning, budgeting, and healthy relationship skills.
- 24-Hour Support - Staff and mentorship available when you need guidance.
- Weekly House Meetings - Community building and conflict resolution.
- Goal Setting & Accountability - Track your progress and celebrate your wins.
- Recovery Fellowship - Connection to local AA/NA and recovery community.
About Stacey
The Hula House is owned and operated by Stacey Dresser, who has lived in North County San Diego for over 20 years and is well-integrated into the area’s recovery community. With over 30 years of continuous sobriety, she is passionate about helping women build stable and fulfilling lives in recovery.
Opening a home like The Hula House has been a dream of Stacey’s for many years, and she treats this opportunity with the care and attention it deserves. Her hope is to create a welcoming environment where women can support one another, build accountability, and achieve the full vision of sobriety while celebrating the small successes that happen every day.
Stacey earned a B.A. in Psychology from the University of South Dakota with a minor in Chemical Dependency. Her education, combined with decades of personal recovery experience, has shaped her commitment to creating a safe and structured environment where women can focus on rebuilding their lives.
In addition to operating The Hula House, Stacey works as an outside sales representative for a maintenance chemical company. She brings strong organizational and leadership skills to managing the home while remaining personally involved in supporting residents.
She has been married to her husband for over 25 years, and together they have two daughters. Stacey attributes much of her own success to her 12-step fellowship and faith, which continue to guide her commitment to helping other women find lasting recovery.
Stories of Transformation
After countless rehabs and other medical measures to quit my drinking I had truly become hopeless.
The hula house gave me a safe, comfortable, accepting and loving environment.
By the recommendation of my therapist I reached out to the Hula House. It would be my first experience at a sober living. I couldn’t be more grateful.
I relearned to do daily activities sober, I began to get comfortable in my skin and around others. Mostly I entered the rooms of AA without being alone. I was introduced to other like-minded people, their philosophies, and what I needed to do in order to continue a sober and happy life.
Today I reflect back, and have so much gratitude and a future worth living for.
Sarah
The Hula House changed my life! Their supportive, compassionate community helped me learn how to stay sober and turn my life around by giving me the tools, encouragement, and
accountability I needed to grow. Through them, I found healing, strength, and lifelong
friendships. I am endlessly grateful for the love and support I received and highly recommend.
The Hula House to anyone seeking real change and community!
Emily M.
I love living at Hula House! The owner Stacey is truly incredible. She has many years of sobriety and leads by example every single day. This isn’t just a business for her — it’s her heart.
She runs a structured, accountable, and supportive home where recovery comes first. If you live here, you are expected to be working a solid program.
The property is beautiful and welcoming, with two houses and a cozy casita. Its has a fire pit with fairy lights in the front, and a peaceful patio and pool in the back which truly feels like home.
The women here are supportive, motivated, and committed to recovery, and having meetings at the house strengthens that sense of community.
I’m so happy I chose to live here and become a part of the Hula House family!
Stephanie
Your Questions Answered
What is the age requirement?
We serve women 30 years and older. This age focus creates a mature, supportive environment where residents share similar life experiences.
Do you accept insurance?
We are a private-pay sober living home and do not accept insurance. However, some residents have successfully obtained reimbursement from county funded programs.
What is your testing policy?
We conduct daily breathalyzing and regular drug testing to maintain a safe, substance-free environment for all residents.
Can I work or go to school while living here?
Absolutely! We encourage residents to work, attend school, or pursue meaningful activities. Both locations are near employment opportunities and colleges.
How long can I stay?
There is no set maximum stay. Many residents live with us for 6-12 months, but you can stay as long as you're working your program and meeting house requirements.
What's included in the monthly rate?
Your monthly rate includes furnished accommodation, utilities, internet, shared living spaces, pool access (Hula House), and 24-hour support.
Do you have house rules?
Yes, we maintain clear house rules including curfews, guest policies, and participation in house meetings. These create structure and accountability that support recovery.
Can my family visit?
Family visits are welcome with advance notice and within established visiting hours. We encourage family involvement in your recovery.
Ready to Start Your New Life?
Take the first step toward lasting recovery in the supportive environment you deserve. We are ready to answer your questions and help you begin your journey.
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The Hula House
Stacey Dresser
(760) 331-3136
PacificaOasisRecovery@gmail.com
Vista & Oceanside, CA
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